Giving wedding speeches during the reception of a wedding seems to be a must. There is no hard and fast rule on what a wedding speech should be, or what it should contain. Some gives emotionally heavy advice, while others try to lighten up the mood by making their speech humorous. Wedding speeches are not something you will remember per word, yet the meaning of the speech is etched in the hearts of people, especially the wedding couple.
Are there any guidelines on what you should say? Of course, you don’t want to be preparing a speech and then when it’s your turn you realize that most of what you’re going to say has been said! Here are some tips:
If you are the father of the bride, you are expected to give some words of wisdom. They need not be too deep or too emotional; they just have to be something you have learned throughout your marriage. Also, welcoming the groom into your family is your task. Do not forget to recognize the presence of the groom’s family.
If you are the best man, your task is to lead the toast. Your speech should be something light, even something that the wedding couple and the guests would laugh about. However, take care that you do not embarrass the couple. Most likely you are close to the groom, so don’t forget to congratulate him. Add some praises for the bride to make her feel more beautiful; after all, it is her wedding day.
If you are the father of the groom, your task would be similar to that of the father of the bride. Of course, welcoming the bride into your family is in order.
Lastly, if you are the maid of honor, you are the closest person to the bride. Hence, you can mention something amusing that you remember about your friend. Reflect on wonderful moments as her friend. Express how happy you are for her.
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