Most women always dream of becoming a bride. Even little girls wonder when that day will come. Whenever that day does come, many brides realize how difficult a task it is to plan a wedding. For many, it was an all out war that provided distress and nervous breakdowns.
First off is determining how much time you need to plan a wedding. There are millions of things to prepare before a wedding and it would be good to give yourself more time for the planning process. And of course, it goes without saying that a bride cannot do all the planning and preparation alone. Consider the number of friends or family you know that will help you through the entire process.
Once you have determined the people who are willing to help, organize all the tasks into groups. Then you can delegate the tasks and assign them to those who you believe has the ability to make the best out of it. The people that can help you should not be limited to your friends and family. Remember that a groom should also be part of the preparations. Make sure you give assignments to your future husband. And don’t let his friends and family off the hook. If there are tasks that some of them can do perfectly, make sure the groom finds a way to assign this to them.
However, no matter how well we delegate all the tasks, we all know that majority of the responsibilities will fall on the bride and her bridesmaids. The reason that bridesmaids are chosen from among the bride’s closest friends is because of all the difficulties that all of you need to go through. It would only take real friends to support you to be able to survive wedding preparations.
Bridesmaids are the ones who will help the bride survive everything until the wedding day itself. As such, it is important to take special care in choosing the gifts that you will give your bridesmaids. After all is said and done, they will deserve just as much credit as the bride for making the wedding a success.
